The term "social support" often appears in discussions of relationships.
Social support means having friends and other people, including family,
to turn to in times of need or crisis to give you a broader focus and
positive self-image. Social support enhances quality of life and
provides a buffer against adverse life events.
Social support can take different forms:
- Emotional (sometimes called non-tangible) support refers to the actions people take to make someone else feel cared for.
- Instrumental support refers to the physical, such as money and housekeeping.
- Informational support means providing information to help someone.
One of the earliest studies on the physical and psychological health benefits of social support was in 1905. Dr. Joseph Pratt, an internist from Boston, gathered a group of tuberculosis patients together to educate them about hygiene in relation to their illness. This "support group" provided early evidence of the power of psychological support in physical health and healing.
How can I benefit?
support, whether from a trusted group or valued individual, has been
shown to reduce the psychological and physiological consequences of
stress, and may enhance immune function. Social networks, whether
formal (such as a church or social club) or informal (meeting with
friends) provide a sense of belonging, security, and community.
In fact, social support is now proven to be a literal life-saver. People that are supported by close relationships with friends, family, or fellow members of church, work, or other support groups are less vulnerable to ill health and premature death. Individuals afflicted with leukemia or heart disease have higher survival rates if they have extensive social support. There is also a strong tie between social support and measures of wellbeing. Those who have close personal relationships cope better with various stressors, including bereavement, job loss, rape, and illness (See Salovey, 2000).
Are there any cautions?
With any social support network, make sure you feel comfortable with the group's beliefs, practices, and expectations. While it's unrealistic to think you'll never experience any disagreement with your friends, family, or other social support network, remember that spending time with them should make you feel accepted, peaceful, and energized, not coerced or anxious.
Power of a group
There are many models of organized group support with a health and healing focus, including (but not limited to) the following:
- 12-step groups that are formed around a particular life challenge (i.e. drug or alcohol dependency, gambling, overeating, etc.)
- Mindfulness Based Stress Reduction (MBSR) groups based on the Jon Kabat-Zinn model. This eight-week group model has been used in medical research for the past several years.
- Resilience training, which integrates mindfulness meditation as part of its core concept
- Mind-body skills groups, such as the model developed by James Gordon, MD, a psychiatrist from Washington, DC
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